Do not lie to me. I can tolerate many, many character flaws in people, but lying is just not one of them. Lying is a sin. Liar, do not knock on my door. Do not dial my phone number. Do not look at my face with a guise of innocence and try to use me. No more! No more lies!
God Almighty is the revealer of all truths, if not in this life, then in the next. Why do you feel the need to continue to fabricate, embellish, exaggerate, and fool? Do you not know that you will stand before your Lord one day and all will be revealed? All of your wrongs will be in plain view, and no one will be there to account for your deeds except for you, naked, cold, exposed, and alone.
There is a sickness in many--a sickness that can infiltrate the very core of the soul, allowing it to create false realities and actually believe them. Your living in a false reality, displaying to the world what you want it to see, and sadly, succeeding in convincing others that your reality is the truth, is not infallible. One day, and it may be a long time from now, all will come crashing down around you with enormous force, shattering your alternate reality and demonstrating your true character. So please, go, continue to live in this false world, this world you have created from smoke and mirrors and the illusions of your illness. Carry on, live it, breathe it, convince others and suck them in. You have the traits of a hypocrite; do you not know them?
Bukhari and Muslim have related the hadith: "The signs of the hypocrite are three: When he speaks he lies, when he promises he does not fulfill it, and when he is entrusted with something he is treacherous." Muslim adds in his narration, "...even if he fasts and prays and insists he is a Muslim."
Oh Muslim, continue to fast and pray and insist on your innocence, on your self-righteousness, on your constant solicitation of pity from those who are pious (or from the ones left who have not grown tired, exhausted from your endless trickery); go through the motions while insisting on dragging others down into your dark hole of lies. I will remain quiet and let you do this; it is not my place to expose you. Again, Allah is the revealer of all truths, and you cannot hide from your Lord.
Even if you stab me in the back a thousand times, your lies really cannot hurt me. I know where I stand; I am confident in my stance. I am not a liar, I do not wish to deceive the ones I love or the ones I profess to love. If I love them, they know it; if I do not, they know it. Hypocrisy is like leprosy, and sooner or later the ones who rallied around you, who held you up, time and time and time again, will disappear. No one wants to keep the company of a leper. No one wants your disease of untruths.
Do not lie to me. Do not lie to yourself.
Sunday, October 28, 2007
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2 comments:
Salaam.....amen sister!brave statements...gotta stick with what u believe and know is right regardless of outside perception.
Um Farouk,
I would blame the environment that make the liar instead of blaming him,
All of us born innocents however it's the norms and traditions that make up them to be liars .
I'm liar.. Yes I am but this is the only truth I use to remind myself about it...
Please Um Farouk never blame me or any liar and give us the hope to change with your bright and inspiring words..
I born as normal Arab guy who hear the lies around him, "mom, your fiend is calling" "I'm not here" my sweet mom order me,... that's was the beginning.
Not big lies, little ones, and some times they call it white lies..(this is the word I hate even when I lie), So I end up with daily lies and believe me sometimes I don't know why I'm lying. until that day that change my life, I met a wife of my friend and she told me one word and make me cry that day.
"Ihab I never lied in my life", " NEVER" I said, she answered ”Never”.
It was like a shock which make me ask forgiveness and start new life.
Till now I'm still liar ;) but the good thing that I count my lies daily and instead of having 30000000 lies a day I have 2-5 lies a MONTH... which is great and working on until I reach the day that my life will be free of KATHEB. (Insha’ Allah Soon)
Sorry I made it so long but I had to share my experience. and I’d to defend all liars (my colleagues) who might be offended by your wonderful article , who keep their lies in a hidden corners of their heart, and invite them to start new life with this hadith (as I did)
"Adhere to truthfulness, because truthfulness leads to goodness, and goodness leads to Paradise; and a person will continue to be truthful, and strive to be truthful, until he will be written down with Allah as a truthful person."
I like this Hadith and I like the story of Kaa'b Bin Malik too, both of them make me motivated to Say the truth Always and every time
May Allah guide us to always be truth.
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